Hi everyone,
I’m having a really stressful time trying to introduce food to my 6mo daughter. If anyone has had a similar experience it’d be good to hear it because I’m feeling like the worlds crappest mum at the moment.
It all started in a bit of a rushed fashion - I went to the clinic at our Sure Start centre to get her weighed a few weeks ago, and one of the health visitors was shocked when I told her we hadn’t started introducing food yet. She was 26 weeks at that point but still hadn’t turned 6 calendar months old. HV says that the 6 month guideline isn’t actually 6 months, it’s 24 weeks, and to throw as much food at her as possible straight away because they get picky with what they eat after 28 weeks. Cue me and her dad panic buying things from the co-op we thought she’d be ok eating (weetabix, avocado etc).
Because she’d shown no sign of wanting food (she hadn’t tried to grab ours or even shown much of an interest when we ate), the baby led approach I had been planning to use didn’t really work. I switched to blending veggies together for her and trying her out with a bit of ready brek in the mornings (always with a bit of water as a drink), and after 2 / 3 weeks of this approach she’s still showing hardly any interest. The most I’ve ever managed to give her is 2 baby spoons of ready brek and 1.5 spoons of pea and green bean purée.
She kicks off after one tiny mouthful and turns her head away like she’s full. I’ve tried feeding her after bottles, in between bottles, before bottles, after naps, everything - she is never interested.
I’ve reached the end of my tether with it today. I tried to give her a bit of purée when she was happy and post-nap, she kicked off and cried so I gave up after half a spoon thinking she wasn’t hungry, then she continued to cry until I realised she was actually hungry and made her a bottle, despite having fed her fairly recently.
The only success I’ve had is with water - she loves drinking from the sippy cup, so much so that I have to take it off her so she doesn’t have too much of it at once, which makes her scream.
I just feel like I’m completely failing at this. She’s starting nursery at the beginning of December and I’m so happy that someone else is going to be responsible for trying to get her to eat. I feel awful for looking forward to fobbing it off onto someone else but the stress of it all is just too much. She was born premature and was difficult to feed at the beginning, and this is just bringing all the worry and stress back up again, even though she’s perfectly happy and healthy so I know I’m just being ridiculous. HV said her prematurity shouldn’t increase the time we need to wait to start introducing food to her (she was only 5 weeks early so not too bad).
If anyone has any experience of trying to get an uninterested baby to eat food I’d be really grateful to hear your story!
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6 month old not interested in food - help
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BMag · 07/11/2019 16:51
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