I just don't know what to do........ I have 3 children - 13, 10 and 7. I have had the worst summer holidays ever. My 10 year old daughter has completely bullied me on a daily basis. She screams and shouts, when I start to tell her off she turns it around saying it wasn't her, blaming someone else. She says it's there fault she is naughty. She blames me for everything, like this morning one of her hairs was pulling and ter I put it in a ponytail. She completely went off it at me, shouting at me that it was my fault I can't do it right I can't even put her up proper etc. Everything I say she says it's me she tells me how horrible I am, she hates me, I make her life a misery and when she has reduced me to tears (which st the end of the holidays was most days) she calls me a cry baby. She can't talk to me civially, she has a go at her siblings for ridiculous things like having her feet to close to her. Now my 7 year old has started. I know a lot of it with him is learnt from her but he has started with same language saying I don't love him. This morning at the breakfast table my husband moved him up slightly (because my 10 year old was kicking off because he was too close) so he started kicking him. He told him off and it escalated resulting in him screaming and shouting, spitting in his dads face tipping all the chairs over, emptying my daughters bag andll over, throwing things including a rock and storming off to his bedroom. I just can't cope anymore. I don't know how to be a good mum I've tried, I'm just broken. It's my birthday tomorrow and I'm dreading it, I know how it'll end. I feel so useless. My husband tries but he's out at work most of the time and when he's not it ends in arguing. I'm sorry for the long post I just wanted to let it all out with the vain hope it might help..... I just can't cope anymore
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My family is falling apart and I don't know what to do
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proudmum77 · 08/09/2018 08:46
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