DH does shift work and finishes at 10:30/11 this week. He is working in the city so is not driving and I drop him to station in the afternoon, collect him at night (around 11:30 usually)
he normally texts when he gets on train so I know when to leave but hadn’t heard from him, I text twice to ask if he was finished and what time his train was and he didn’t reply so I called him. (He’s been online about 10:30 so probably got off a bit early) and he’s in the pub.
usually I wouldn’t care as much but.
- I’ve that annoying cough that seems to be lasting years so up a lot in the night so quite tired
- I’m not the biggest fan of driving late at night and the station isn’t in a nice area so normally lots of speeding cars / blue light police vans to navigate
- (Probably the least annoying thing but still really annoyed me 😂) I have some friends staying this week and they were having some wine and I have had to not have a glass as i have to collect him
just bothers me that he knows I don’t like driving super late, knows id have probably wanted a glass of wine with friends and knows I’m tired and didn’t come straight home. I wouldn’t mind on a Thursday or Friday as he does go out often on those nights but it’s bloody Wednesday and I just want to have a glass of wine and go to bed.
am I being a bunny boiler or do I have a right to be annoyed?
(I know it’s only 11:45 but if he’s still in the city in the pub god knows what time he’ll get back - I assume about 1 as he’s working tmro)