My father in law is morbidly overweight, struggles to walk, etc and I have nothing against him but dread the thought of my husband being like that. I’m sorry but I couldn’t stay, I want to be active and do things and to be doing that to your own body…
He’s quickly heading to that direction though. Him and I never share a meal, he doesn’t eat the healthy food I cook he would just order a takeaway instead. He says he loves my cooking but can’t see him eating it?? I batch cook things so there’s always healthy food in the freezer but he won’t eat it. I eat my dinner earlier as I don’t want to put on weight, I will only eat in the evenings if there’s a special occasion.
As well if we go for a day out I will eat and the kids will eat before so we don’t get hungry and he says he’s not hungry and as soon as we get there he will buy something unhealthy. This is exactly what his father would do. I just reminded him there’s some really delicious risotto in the freezer as he said he was going to get a takeaway, he says he hasn’t eaten all day. He’s not taking the hint! Would I be unreasonable to just tell him if you get as big as your dad I will want a divorce..?
AIBU?
I want to tell my husband I will divorce him if he gains a lot more weight
LongStoryShorty · 18/11/2022 20:55
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLEmilyGilmoresSass · 18/11/2022 21:38
Aye. With a thrown in dose of the shits for good measure. Which I can't imagine OP would withstand.
FreakyFrie · 18/11/2022 21:34
I don’t blame you. No one wants to stay with a fat slob.
Just him straight.
He doesn’t need a takeaway and he can eat the risotto!
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Quincythequince · 18/11/2022 21:45
Hardly the same thing. She’s married to him.
Being married to someone who doesn’t care about their health, and especially when you do, is draining.
Thelongwayround · 18/11/2022 21:08
Fuck me. Who else do you shun? The disabled? Very underweight people? Smokers? People with heart disease?
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Soontobe60 · 18/11/2022 21:48
If I told my DH that there was some lovely risotto in the freezer for his dinner, I think he’d divorce me!
FreakyFrie · 18/11/2022 21:34
I don’t blame you. No one wants to stay with a fat slob.
Just him straight.
He doesn’t need a takeaway and he can eat the risotto!
Travis1 · 18/11/2022 21:01
You sound like you have issues with food? Won’t eat in the evenings unless it’s a special occasion? You can leave your husband for whatever reason you want. Perhaps you don’t make him happy and that’s why he eats shite so you’d be doing him a favour. Who knows 🤷🏻♀️
GerronBuzanDoThaWomwok · 18/11/2022 21:56
What joyless bollocks 🙄
FreakyFrie · 18/11/2022 21:34
I don’t blame you. No one wants to stay with a fat slob.
Just him straight.
He doesn’t need a takeaway and he can eat the risotto!
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