So, husband away all week with work. I'm home, 3 kids and dogs, work PT
with a lifelong disease, he gets home I was sounding off explaining my feelings and frustrations. He tells me can I now turn the hairdryer off. Meaning me, my voice, droning on. I've shut up, feelings hurt. Unheard and under appreciated.
AIBU?
Dh told be to turn hairdryer off now
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 18:54
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:46
Yes away 90% of the time. I really don't want too say other than I could if wanted too claim disability and never work again. It's something that can't be cured, it's life changing and affects me greatly on a day to day basis.
SpidersAreShitheads · 07/10/2022 19:44
What's your lifelong illness that you're suffering from? Not asking to be nosey, but it could be relevant. It's a bit of a vague term that could either mean there's a huge impact on your quality of life, or something that makes very little difference.
And is your DH away with work all week, every week?
ParentallyUnprepared · 07/10/2022 18:57
I thought this was going to be about energy costs.
CuriousCatfish · 07/10/2022 20:58
Your bridge is calling.
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PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:53
No, it’s nothing to do with her sex, just her attitude. I can see why her husband won’t put up with her shit.
CuriousCatfish · 07/10/2022 20:47
Why?
Because she's the little woman? Woman know your place.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:40
My reading is just fine, thanks, I just can’t bring myself to sympathise fit someone with the OP’s attitude. I can see why her husband told her to shut her gob.
Herejustforthisone · 07/10/2022 20:28
Not too hot at the reading are you? Christ almighty. So many handmaidens.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:09
I can see why he told you to zip it if this is how you think it’s acceptable to speak to people.
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:54
Read the thread in it's entirety before commenting..
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 19:52
It was rude of him, but it’s also rude to unload on him when he’s just got home from work and is hoping to unwind.
Had he at least had time to get changed and have a cup of tea or a drink?
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:02
RIPQueen don't respond if you don't appreciate my feelings. I felt it was worthy of some support.
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PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:53
No, it’s nothing to do with her sex, just her attitude. I can see why her husband won’t put up with her shit.
CuriousCatfish · 07/10/2022 20:47
Why?
Because she's the little woman? Woman know your place.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:40
My reading is just fine, thanks, I just can’t bring myself to sympathise fit someone with the OP’s attitude. I can see why her husband told her to shut her gob.
Herejustforthisone · 07/10/2022 20:28
Not too hot at the reading are you? Christ almighty. So many handmaidens.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:09
I can see why he told you to zip it if this is how you think it’s acceptable to speak to people.
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:54
Read the thread in it's entirety before commenting..
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 19:52
It was rude of him, but it’s also rude to unload on him when he’s just got home from work and is hoping to unwind.
Had he at least had time to get changed and have a cup of tea or a drink?
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:02
RIPQueen don't respond if you don't appreciate my feelings. I felt it was worthy of some support.
CuriousCatfish · 07/10/2022 20:47
Why?
Because she's the little woman? Woman know your place.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:40
My reading is just fine, thanks, I just can’t bring myself to sympathise fit someone with the OP’s attitude. I can see why her husband told her to shut her gob.
Herejustforthisone · 07/10/2022 20:28
Not too hot at the reading are you? Christ almighty. So many handmaidens.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:09
I can see why he told you to zip it if this is how you think it’s acceptable to speak to people.
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:54
Read the thread in it's entirety before commenting..
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 19:52
It was rude of him, but it’s also rude to unload on him when he’s just got home from work and is hoping to unwind.
Had he at least had time to get changed and have a cup of tea or a drink?
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:02
RIPQueen don't respond if you don't appreciate my feelings. I felt it was worthy of some support.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:40
My reading is just fine, thanks, I just can’t bring myself to sympathise fit someone with the OP’s attitude. I can see why her husband told her to shut her gob.
Herejustforthisone · 07/10/2022 20:28
Not too hot at the reading are you? Christ almighty. So many handmaidens.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:09
I can see why he told you to zip it if this is how you think it’s acceptable to speak to people.
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:54
Read the thread in it's entirety before commenting..
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 19:52
It was rude of him, but it’s also rude to unload on him when he’s just got home from work and is hoping to unwind.
Had he at least had time to get changed and have a cup of tea or a drink?
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:02
RIPQueen don't respond if you don't appreciate my feelings. I felt it was worthy of some support.
Herejustforthisone · 07/10/2022 20:28
Not too hot at the reading are you? Christ almighty. So many handmaidens.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:09
I can see why he told you to zip it if this is how you think it’s acceptable to speak to people.
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:54
Read the thread in it's entirety before commenting..
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 19:52
It was rude of him, but it’s also rude to unload on him when he’s just got home from work and is hoping to unwind.
Had he at least had time to get changed and have a cup of tea or a drink?
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:02
RIPQueen don't respond if you don't appreciate my feelings. I felt it was worthy of some support.
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:09
I can see why he told you to zip it if this is how you think it’s acceptable to speak to people.
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:54
Read the thread in it's entirety before commenting..
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 19:52
It was rude of him, but it’s also rude to unload on him when he’s just got home from work and is hoping to unwind.
Had he at least had time to get changed and have a cup of tea or a drink?
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:02
RIPQueen don't respond if you don't appreciate my feelings. I felt it was worthy of some support.
RIPQueen · 07/10/2022 20:19
Whatever - this was one of those posts anyway where there’s a huge backstory that doesn’t get brought up so it’s not clear until 2 pages in that the minor thing isn’t the issue and it’s part of something else. Why not say in the initial post?
also to the poster who said what is worthy of a post on a support forum for mothers?
this isn’t just a forum
for mothers.
Herejustforthisone · 07/10/2022 20:12
You and the husband would make a good pair. Both making damn sure the OP doesn’t feel heard. Go you.
RIPQueen · 07/10/2022 18:58
Ffs what’s with all this posts about fairly trivial domestic arguments
no it’s not particularly nice. Is it worth a MN post?
there have been so many of these recently
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 20:09
I can see why he told you to zip it if this is how you think it’s acceptable to speak to people.
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:54
Read the thread in it's entirety before commenting..
PrincessButtercupToo · 07/10/2022 19:52
It was rude of him, but it’s also rude to unload on him when he’s just got home from work and is hoping to unwind.
Had he at least had time to get changed and have a cup of tea or a drink?
Mumof3lads · 07/10/2022 19:02
RIPQueen don't respond if you don't appreciate my feelings. I felt it was worthy of some support.
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Herejustforthisone · 07/10/2022 20:12
You and the husband would make a good pair. Both making damn sure the OP doesn’t feel heard. Go you.
RIPQueen · 07/10/2022 18:58
Ffs what’s with all this posts about fairly trivial domestic arguments
no it’s not particularly nice. Is it worth a MN post?
there have been so many of these recently
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