I really aim to be organised and on the ball, but recently, I’ve been feeling quite overwhelmed.
In theory, I don’t have a huge amount to be stressed about - don’t have any kids atm so just need to look after myself, but I’m finding it quite stressful to keep my house tidy and to feel like I’m on top of everything.
The things I’m struggling with are all probably quite minor, but I feel like they’ve built up over time, so it feels a bit too much atm:
- I’m a lodger in a house share, and recently have been finding it harder to keep my space tidy. For example, I find it hard to keep my kitchen space tidy; I just have the one cupboard shelf and fridge shelf. And in my bathroom space - have lots of products in my bit of the bathroom, and it’s getting untidier by the day. I also find it hard to organise my clothes in my bedroom. I think part of this is because I’ve lived in my current house share for a few years now, and have accumulated quite a bit of stuff, but need to keep it to my room or the kitchen
- To-do lists: I quite enjoy making to-do lists (I think it’s enjoying that feeling of productiveness that comes with it - yes, I’m sad!!) But I can never decide where to make my list: e.g. do I write a paper one or one on an app? I don’t think I’ve quite nailed one system I can stick to.
- Diary: I keep a paper diary, for non-work stuff, and also write reminders to myself on my work calendar on Outlook. This works, but I feel like I could simplify it, and just have the one diary! Any suggestions welcome! How do you organise your personal life and work life?
- General reminders: where can I keep a list of these? E.g. working out my budget each month, meal planner etc. I have a note of both of these on One Note, but just find updating it a real faff. It doesn’t take very long at all, but I think it’s more because it becomes one more thing to check and update.
I would really appreciate some tips on how I can keep myself calm and sane, and how I can keep my life in order and my house tidy! I know it might sound silly, but I think the thing about having a tidy house, and one space for to-do lists, really has an impact on your mood and your mindset.
I feel like I’ve been really trying to improve on all the above, but at the moment, it feels like any changes I’ve made are just adding to the mental load. Does anyone relate? Can anyone offer any tips please? I’m fairly sure I don’t have ADHD or anything - I think it’s just life admin creeping up on me and me getting a bit overwhelmed with it all!!
Thanks in advance for tips 😊