I posted this on the adoption thread but there was no replies.
I was looking for some advice with a step parent adoption. We are in Scotland.
My partner wishes to adopt my DD8. Her biological father is not on her birth certificate and has had no contact with her since she was 2.
However, he recently got into contact through a lawyer and wishes to have contact again and is taking the matter to court. Would this impact the adoption procedures when we start them? I know we have to continue the court case legally until we have officially started our adoption procedure.
If anyone could help us out with the length of time the adoption could take and what steps we need to take that would be greatly appreciated.
AIBU?
Step parent adoption
Usernameinvalid16 · 03/10/2022 21:51
Am I being unreasonable?
70 votes. Final results.
POLLUsernameinvalid16 · 05/10/2022 19:34
She just mentioned that she would like him to be her dad. I do not talk about any sensitive information around her. She doesn’t know what adoption is, just that she would like him to be her dad. We were actually talking about her day at school when she brought it up after being quiet for a couple of minutes. I have not influenced her in anyway.
Usernameinvalid16 · 05/10/2022 20:38
That’s true. I would hope he isn’t talking to her about it. But he also works from home whilst he has her most days so I am assuming he doesn’t have time to talk intensely about anything.
Usernameinvalid16 · 05/10/2022 20:38
That’s true. I would hope he isn’t talking to her about it. But he also works from home whilst he has her most days so I am assuming he doesn’t have time to talk intensely about anything.
Usernameinvalid16 · 05/10/2022 19:34
She just mentioned that she would like him to be her dad. I do not talk about any sensitive information around her. She doesn’t know what adoption is, just that she would like him to be her dad. We were actually talking about her day at school when she brought it up after being quiet for a couple of minutes. I have not influenced her in anyway.
AccountDeactivated · 05/10/2022 15:59
@TimeForTeaAndG OP said it’s the boyfriend that’s driving this 🚩🚩🚩
Not the child.
Usernameinvalid16 · 05/10/2022 13:29
Yes I know he will always be DDs dad. But so far he’s not done that. I’m willing to answer any questions she may have now or in the future. She’s always had me, and always will.
I haven’t answered anyones questions because I’m at work but once I’m home tonight I will work through the posts and answer individual questions.
Icanstillrecallourlastsummer · 04/10/2022 09:52
Why are you legally binding your child to a partner you aren't even yourself legally bound to? And after only 2 years? This seems very rushed.
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