We recently tried the Supernanny method with 2yo DS where you repeatedly take him back in his room and put him into bed and walk away. Supernanny didn't mention the bit where the child cries so much they they shake and make themselves vomit, and that you would be at it non-stop for hours.
DS has been through a massive change in his little life, with moving country, leaving his friends, starting a new nursery and missing his daddy very much who is away for work. My formerly independent little pickle is now very clingy, crying and following me if I leave the room for anything. We are also moving again very soon so I decided not to bother sleep training him now.
However, I am now at the point where I am lying with him on his bedroom floor for an hour every night to get him to sleep. He will then sleep for an hour and then wake up and cry until I go to (my) bed with him. Then he wakes up every few hours and cries.
I NEED the time in the evenings to get the housework done, and I need to sleep. Does anyone have any advice? Should I bite the bullet and sleep train him? Will it help him become more independent? Or is it cruel when he's got so much going on in his little life?
AIBU?
AIBU to sleep train my clingy toddler?
FuschiaEmerald · 24/09/2022 07:59
Am I being unreasonable?
54 votes. Final results.
POLLRIPQueen · 26/09/2022 19:17
Ah mine always go through this phase around 2-2.5. Easiest thing is just to
let them
be in your bed. The more sure they are that you are there, the happier they will
Become and in a few months they wiLl go
happily in to their own bed.
FuschiaEmerald · 24/09/2022 08:26
We move next week. He will be changing nurseries again. This will be the last move for us though, forever I hope. How long do I wait after we move? The clinginess/floor sleeping routine has been going on for 4 weeks now. Do you think carry on for 4 weeks the other side of the move while he gets settled in new home and nursery then start with the sleep training?
Lucyshavingaparty · 26/09/2022 19:14
Put bars up on the door of his room so he can't get out. They get used to it after about two nights and just go to sleep.
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