I started a new full time role with a national charity a few weeks ago and I hate it.
I now dread the idea of working like this every day for the next year or so.
To put this in context I have worked part-time for the last few years, often doing project management contracts.
The reason for taking this full-time role is because it is a remote role and I am planning to relocate to a totally different part of the country. The full time, permanent contract would else help with taking on a new mortgage or rental in the new location that I am moving to.
So from a practical point of view it made sense but I just am not enjoying it at all.
It has all the bad points of many charities: endless meetings rather than a focus on completing actual work, messy processes, crap IT and unclear expectations.
I think at 52 I am just struggling to cope with the constant demands of a full time role. I am starting to have difficulties sleeping and have a long term conditions which is aggravated by stress.
So what do I do? suck it up for a few more months until I make my move to a new location and find a job there might seem like the most reasonable solution.
My other thoughts were to try to ask whether I could switch to part-time hours (4 days a week) doing my probation meeting.
It is a shame because I really relate to the cause that the charity supports but the rest is just not for me.
Any advice? as anyone else been in the same situation?
I have already mentioned to management that the amount of meetings that I was expected to attend every day hardly left time for work delivery and that a better balance would need to be struck.
AIBU?
To think my new job is a huge mistake...struggling in my 50s
Redqueenheart · 22/09/2022 13:01
urgen · 25/09/2022 09:30
I think I know which dogs charity you are talking about. Relative had a senior role there a few years ago. It was a shocking mess and she did 18 months.
Having said that I worked as a supplier in local and central government for over 20 years. There would be riots in the street if people knew the time wasting, the endless meetings (with coffee and sandwiches) about very little. It was truly disgraceful and I am glad I am out of it!
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