Before people say what a horrible arsehole I am, I didn’t want a dog but gave in to years and years of pressure from everyone else in my family and now I am stuck with a dog who is ruining my life. still a puppy but is showing some possessiveness around food and I wish with all my heart I had never got him. My daughters are so happy my wife is happy but the dog can be awful to them too.
i hate everything about having a dog.
when is it ever going to get better z
ive sat and cried tonight becssue i wish I could go back in time
AIBU?
To wish I hadn’t got a dog
Ihatemydogbmnamechange · 17/09/2022 23:41
Am I being unreasonable?
255 votes. Final results.
POLLWhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 21/09/2022 19:08
Agree @BooseysMom Sadly, although we always had a family dog when I was growing up and I loved them very much, I could NOT be fucked with them now. Your house always stinks, (yes it really does!) you never have a clean home, you're tied to them, you have no spontaneity, they cost 1000s of £££ in vet fees (sometimes 5-figure fees,) they yap yap yap, bark, bark, bark incessantly some days, they demand attention all the time... Also, you have to walk them - I see the 3 women in my cul-de-sac with them and they go out to walk the dog at 7am-7.30am every day. AND they're out 8 and 9 at night, no matter what the weather is like. Could NOT be arsed with that.
Plus all that bloody dog hair, AND they regularly jump up strangers. I went to someone's house a few months ago, and they had seven dogs. Fucking SEVEN. All different shapes and sizes...Their garden was small, and there was nowhere close for them to run free. They hardly ever take them all for walks, they just let them run around the house and small garden. And they ALWAYS jump up you when you go to the house and run around like the Tasmanian Devil. Because they have so much energy, because they are rarely walked far.
Cats for me only. Soooo easy to look after, and so chilled. And even then, after 25 years of having them, when our last one (aged 15 now) has died, we won't have any more. As easy to look after as cats are, they are still a bit of a tie and an expense. Nowhere NEAR as much as dogs though!
SO many people have become dog owners this past decade, who are not fit to look after a fucking goldfish. They're right up there with MALMILS/lycra clad cyclists, and people who drive 4 wheel drive German cars.
WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 21/09/2022 19:08
Agree @BooseysMom Sadly, although we always had a family dog when I was growing up and I loved them very much, I could NOT be fucked with them now. Your house always stinks, (yes it really does!) you never have a clean home, you're tied to them, you have no spontaneity, they cost 1000s of £££ in vet fees (sometimes 5-figure fees,) they yap yap yap, bark, bark, bark incessantly some days, they demand attention all the time... Also, you have to walk them - I see the 3 women in my cul-de-sac with them and they go out to walk the dog at 7am-7.30am every day. AND they're out 8 and 9 at night, no matter what the weather is like. Could NOT be arsed with that.
Plus all that bloody dog hair, AND they regularly jump up strangers. I went to someone's house a few months ago, and they had seven dogs. Fucking SEVEN. All different shapes and sizes...Their garden was small, and there was nowhere close for them to run free. They hardly ever take them all for walks, they just let them run around the house and small garden. And they ALWAYS jump up you when you go to the house and run around like the Tasmanian Devil. Because they have so much energy, because they are rarely walked far.
Cats for me only. Soooo easy to look after, and so chilled. And even then, after 25 years of having them, when our last one (aged 15 now) has died, we won't have any more. As easy to look after as cats are, they are still a bit of a tie and an expense. Nowhere NEAR as much as dogs though!
SO many people have become dog owners this past decade, who are not fit to look after a fucking goldfish. They're right up there with MALMILS/lycra clad cyclists, and people who drive 4 wheel drive German cars.
Ihatemydogbmnamechange · 18/09/2022 07:00
to answer some questions.
- everybody does their bit
- i walk the dog at least once a day for at least twenty minutes but normally between half an hour and an hour
- i can feed the dog it’s food one piece at a time and it will sit patiently
- i know I can rehome it but I said yes and I have made my bed and I have to lie in it
- the dog is very good in a lot of ways
- the dog is very large but a very gentle breed
- se have had a dog trainer
- I am due on my period so it’s possible I’m having a bit of an emotional reaction to it’s behaviour
- the dog is only possessive around it’s food and toys in some circumstances and we are trying to work on thie
- i have spent hours training rhe dog
- i do not like dogs in general but I agreed because everyone else did. If I had said no we would not have one. I have no one to blam e but myself
- i need
mydogisthebest · 18/09/2022 15:02
You know so little about dogs it is laughable.
Not all dogs smell. Ignorant people insist they do but some breeds just don't. Lots of dogs don't bark very much if at all. I have 2 dogs and they only bark if someone is at the door or when someone decides they can walk into our back garden. That is what I want them to do.
One of my dogs has never ever chewed a thing. We got him at 9 weeks and he is now 10. The other dog did chew but we trained him not to (didn't take long).
Yes they poo and wee but they were both toilet trained within a week which is certainly a lot quicker than any child.
Children are far more bother than dogs. They take forever to toilet train, likely to have tons of accidents on the floor, destroy many things, draw on walls, have tantrums etc etc. As they grow they get worse and worse unlike dogs.
My dogs don't argue with me, they don't strop around the house, I don't have to worry about them getting pregnant, smoking, taking drugs.
BooseysMom · 18/09/2022 03:20
Exactly why I haven't caved in and joined the masses. I'm not having our home stinking, endless barking, chewing, pooing, weeing, jumping up at people ..and all that after paying over a grand for the privilege.. and that's before any trips to the vet.
The neighbours are dog sitters. The barking really grates at our nerves.. DH works from home so it's worse for him. Their home stinks and the dogs are untrained, boisterous yobs that jump up at people and they appear to think that’s perfectly normal.
Furries · 18/09/2022 06:28
Completely get where you’re coming from. But there are breeds that have low propensity for barking. And you train them to wee and poo outside!
And it’s fairly simple to train dogs NOT to jump up at people.
Vet trips shouldn’t be too much of a problem. Insurance isn’t too expensive.
BooseysMom · 18/09/2022 03:20
Exactly why I haven't caved in and joined the masses. I'm not having our home stinking, endless barking, chewing, pooing, weeing, jumping up at people ..and all that after paying over a grand for the privilege.. and that's before any trips to the vet.
The neighbours are dog sitters. The barking really grates at our nerves.. DH works from home so it's worse for him. Their home stinks and the dogs are untrained, boisterous yobs that jump up at people and they appear to think that’s perfectly normal.
BooseysMom · 18/09/2022 03:20
Exactly why I haven't caved in and joined the masses. I'm not having our home stinking, endless barking, chewing, pooing, weeing, jumping up at people ..and all that after paying over a grand for the privilege.. and that's before any trips to the vet.
The neighbours are dog sitters. The barking really grates at our nerves.. DH works from home so it's worse for him. Their home stinks and the dogs are untrained, boisterous yobs that jump up at people and they appear to think that’s perfectly normal.
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