My dad has recently told me that he would like to give my husband and me £50k as he is selling his rental property he owns to enjoy some cash himself. I am completely blown away by this. It’s a life changing amount of money for us.
when I told my husband his reaction was ‘that’s nice isn’t it’. I said did you hear me right, 50 grand!!! And he laughed and said yeah I heard!
what the fuck is going on here? AIBU to find him really fucking ungrateful and just feel like this is a really odd reaction! I cried when he told me, he’s acting like he’s lent us a tenner!
why would he be like this? Feeling emasculated maybe? He’s not usually like that but I just don’t understand at all.
AIBU?
To be annoyed by husbands underwhelming reaction
Brum145 · 09/09/2022 19:34
Am I being unreasonable?
277 votes. Final results.
POLLBrum145 · 09/09/2022 19:44
Fair enough! I’m actually relieved this is a normal reaction. I don’t know what I expected, maybe somewhere in between ‘that’s nice’ and skipping naked down the garden 😂
lobsterkiller · 09/09/2022 19:39
Yeah, he thinks it's your money.
You'd probably get the hump if he dug the Grattans out and started bending pages over. 😂
It is a life changing sum and an amazing gift.
Imissmoominmama · 09/09/2022 19:35
He feels it’s yours. It’s quite a respectful response, I think.
Dalaidramailama · 09/09/2022 20:39
Sounds normal. 50k is great but not life changing for a lot of people.
Imissmoominmama · 09/09/2022 19:35
He feels it’s yours. It’s quite a respectful response, I think.
arthurfowlermood · 09/09/2022 20:33
My husband would have been thrilled and me vice versa. It would be "our" money and we both rejoice in it.
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