Just picked up my 8 year old DD from a sleepover at her friend from schools house and it turns out she and her friend were up until 4.30 am. The mum came into the room and said it was time to calm down and go to sleep...at 4.30 am!!
I'm really unhappy, in what world is letting 8 year old girls stay awake till that time unaccompanied may I add as the mum was in her bed, okay? 12 am - fair enough, maybe 1 am at a push if excited but 4.30 am is ridiculous and my DD is knackered.
I don't know whether to text the mum. She certainly won't be back there for a sleepover. AIBU?
AIBU?
8 year old up till 4.30 am is unreasonable?
keepsane · 26/06/2022 12:07
bendmeoverbackwards · 26/06/2022 17:02
And no, it’s not ‘normal’. It almost seems like the adults are accepting or even encouraging them to stay up all night. Lots of kids hate it being up that late, they might well WANT an adult to step in.
bendmeoverbackwards · 26/06/2022 17:02
And no, it’s not ‘normal’. It almost seems like the adults are accepting or even encouraging them to stay up all night. Lots of kids hate it being up that late, they might well WANT an adult to step in.
keepsane · 26/06/2022 13:15
Oh trust me, my DD is grounded after that.
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keepsane · 26/06/2022 12:11
No they were no dads present as she is a single mum. It just wouldn't have been allowed at my house. When my DD has had sleepovers they are always in bed at reasonable hour
riesenrad · 26/06/2022 12:09
OP did you ever go to stay at someone's house when you were 8 years old? This is completely normal when you are 8 years old and excited.
The mum could have told them to pipe down every hour from 11pm and it wouldn't have made any difference.
By the way, why is it the mother's "fault"? Was there no dad present?
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RooniIWazlib · 26/06/2022 14:40
@keepsane
Are you coming back?
You know, you'll get what you deserve when your daughter is a teenager.
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