As my username says really -
Im petrified
Ive fallen head over heels in love with a close friend
Neither of us have been with a woman before
We cut all contact as soon as we realised how we felt, nothing physical happened of course as we are both married.
3 months later and I’m so upset without her, it’s like I can’t function.
Shes messaged me today saying she has decided to end her marriage, he is leaving next month, no expectations but she wanted me to be aware of the situation.
My children are younger than hers and would be devastated if me and their dad split.
I love my husband, I really do, but there’s always been something missing emotionally as I’ve often had really really intense female friendships - none have crossed the line like this but they would be so intense I would fall out with them easily as would be hurt by minor things etc.
Maybe I’ve been gay all along but how the F do I do this now, married with 2 children.
I feel heartbroken whatever way I go now.
Any advice please?
AIBU?
AIBU to be terrified I am gay when I am married with DC?
Scaredbeyondbelief123 · 15/05/2022 22:54
Am I being unreasonable?
216 votes. Final results.
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Monty27 · 15/05/2022 23:33
@whynotwhatknot you contradict yourself. Who cares what gender?
OP that's to you too. Y
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