The tiny terrorist is on one this morning and I said to my partner it's fine we can get him out in garden in 20 mins or so to burn off the excess energy. He looked at me like I had two heads and told me anything before 10 or 10.30 on a weekend was unacceptable and would make us those neighbours. For context we have 2 attached neighbours both with babies or young children themselves and ours is only a toddler so plays relatively quietly (obviously not silently though). So aibu, am I accidentally the neighbour from hell?
AIBU?
To think 8.30am is an acceptable time for a child to play in the garden?
Theresamagicalplace · 07/05/2022 08:08
Am I being unreasonable?
2502 votes. Final results.
POLLFoggydayz · 09/05/2022 07:41
you're overthinkinging!
they have babies. Babies are often up for a morning feed about 630, and ready for a mid morning nap at 930-1030. This might mean that ten am is the worst time to let your toddler out.
Or you may have one neighbour whose baby sleeps in the morning but naps 1-3 every afternoon. Does that mean you don't let your child out then?
I would say that the sound of a child playing alone is not going to bother anyone. I have 3 kids and they fight and bicker and make big noises. We are overlooked by ten neighbours ( all elderly) and the majority say how much they love seeing the kids outside ( even if they are ruffians ) .Are your neighbours unreasonable? or do you have a relationship whereby you could speak to them if they were up and in the garden at hours that affected you?
i do think it is your garden and you should use it as you please
ZenKaleidoscope · 07/05/2022 08:12
How on earth do you keep a toddler entertained at home until 10:30?
I don't think 8:30 is too early at all.
Loopyloopy · 09/05/2022 05:49
It's the underlying attitude that is sickening - that kids should be kept quiet with screens rather than being allowed to be kids.
An hour won't make a difference, no, but there's this growing expectation that kids should be kept quiet and indoors.
Mothership4two · 08/05/2022 23:27
@surreygirl1987
As for the suggestion that parents put Peppa Pig on the TV for an hour or so rather than allow young children to play outside... are you actually serious?! And you wonder why there is a screen issue with kids and why kids are going outside less than ever, glued to screen instead?! That is sickening advice and I hope nobody is foolish enough to follow it!!
"Sickening advice"? Get a grip. An hour of Peppa Pig is not going to have a major impact on them.
Mothership4two · 08/05/2022 23:27
@surreygirl1987
As for the suggestion that parents put Peppa Pig on the TV for an hour or so rather than allow young children to play outside... are you actually serious?! And you wonder why there is a screen issue with kids and why kids are going outside less than ever, glued to screen instead?! That is sickening advice and I hope nobody is foolish enough to follow it!!
"Sickening advice"? Get a grip. An hour of Peppa Pig is not going to have a major impact on them.
MyBrilliantFriend · 07/05/2022 08:08
It’s a bit early. My cut off is 9am - 10:30 is the middle of the day for a toddler!
sborber · 08/05/2022 21:17
No, do you know what, sod your neighbours. Do what's best for YOU on YOUR weekend. If your neighbours have an issue, they'll soon let you know about it (which I doubt, since they have kids, too) but until then, if your DS needs to let off some steam, let him out before bloody 9am. As you've said, he's a toddler so probably wouldn't make much noise anyway.
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