DP showed me the ring he’s gonna get, and it’s nice, but it’s not my idea of an engagement ring – it’s silver and topaz. Now this is NOT about the money – I do not expect the ‘month’s salary’ cos that’s diamond company propaganda. But I do love jewellery (I make and sell it) and engagement rings tend to be be a bit more special, and last a long time (topaz is brittle; silver dents easily).
I don’t even mind if we don’t get married for years, but the ring is important to me.
I don’t know if he knows what engagement rings more usually are, and I don’t think he’s trying to be cheap, and it’s a sweet ring. I love that he’s picked it himself too.
Do I tell myself to get a grip, princess, or do I gently say, that’s lovely but I wonder if we could choose something together?
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surfergrl · 17/11/2021 18:22
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