I am utterly exhausted having to fight for support for my DS10. He has a diagnosis of ASD, anxiety, sensory and speech issues. He is ‘fine in school’ say his teachers.
Support currently offered is based around adjustments for him rather than any practical support. Adjustments made since reception but things are worse in year 6.
His behaviour at home has us at our limits; angry outbursts every day. He is under CAMHS and other therapists for his extreme behaviour.
He hates school.
I’ve spoken to the SENCO in his new secondary and it’s the same offer he currently has; minor adjustments that are going to make little difference to how he copes with school.
Such as offering him a seat at the back of the class, allowing him to leave class earlier, not asking him to read aloud. He has these adjustments now and they just do not work!
The new SENCO believes DS will be fine in school as his attendance in primary has been excellent . (School don’t see the issues I have each morning trying to get him out of the door on time. We have to set our alarms 2.5 hours early before school starts!).
He does not have an EHCP (that’s a whole other thread). I’ve given up and I will just have to hope for the best come September.
Does anyone have experience of a child struggling in primary flourishing in secondary?
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DillyDallyDollie · 08/05/2021 21:58
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