To mot want to honeymoon with friends?!

jendifer · 2021-04-05 13:45:53

DP and I have been friends for five years, dating for two and will get married this summer. Within our joint friends, we have often organised holidays, trips, meals etc. The majority of friends either have v busy jobs or young children and we both enjoy it and have the flexibility of it. Yesterday some friends came round and were asking us about the wedding. We explained we’d have a local honeymoon as we aren’t sure what the restrictions would be regarding a holiday abroad. The friends said they’d love to go to the place we’re going to and could they come too. We laughed it off. This morning a different friend has messaged saying she’s heard about yesterday’s conversation and has found a house near where we’re staying which sleeps 8 and they’re thinking of booking it. That way they can all spend time with DP and I and do some joint things like bike rides. Now another friend has messages saying how excited they are it’ll be a joint honeymoon and holiday and they’ve booked the week off work. DP and I are going for two weeks and this is the second week. AIBU to want the honeymoon to be just DP and I? Or do I just acknowledge that I’ll have a week with DP and a week with friends nearby who we love the company of and it’ll be nice to see other people too?!

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