DH and I have 1 very young DC and he has 2 older DC ( 8 & 10 ).
I have thought for some time and have mentioned a few times that I think DH gives them far too much crap to eat.
Our meals are always pretty healthy but I mean in the way of snacks and 'pudding'.
It's not uncommon for him to give them a bag of sweets (a big share bag) after tea or a whole box of biscuits or similar and big glasses of coke etc...
If they were here EOW it might not be a huge issue but we have them 50% of the time so 3 nights one week, 4 the next so it's pretty regular.
Neither child is overweight but I just don't feel comfortable with it for other reasons, teeth a big one! I was never allowed to eat so much crap as a kid.
As our DC gets older I just know I definitely won't allow them to eat the same things all of the time. Treats is one thing but this is every night they are with us after tea and even worse at weekend because it's throughout the day too as snacks.
I've mentioned it to him before and he agrees but then nothing really changes. I've tried just buying less stuff, I don't want to literally buy no treats at all, but they just go to the shop instead round the corner.
Do I just leave it and let him crack on parenting how he wants but ensure I do it differently with our DC when the time comes or do I push it again?
YANBU - just leave him to it.
YABU - push it.
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ThrowawayName111 · 01/04/2021 08:22
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