To wonder if he’ll notice my weight gain?

[Rainbow1234567]

I’m meeting a male friend on Wednesday who I haven’t seen for 4-5 months. He’s been working away but is back for a flying visit. Since I last saw him I have gained about 7-8 pounds (3.5kg). Do you think he’ll notice? I weigh around 12 stone but am tall so I’m normal BMI (just). In case it’s not obvious, I fancy him! I have gained it all over which might help me!

[BrainFart]

A man who hasn't seen you in 4-5 months noticing a 7lb weight gain, whilst you're (presumably) in winter clothing (assuming you're in the UK).

No. Chance.

[CAG12]

Maybe? Maybe not? Maybe it doesnt bother him.

Its literally impossible to an answer this question honestly

[Keepmewarm]

So what if he does!

[DorisDances]

To be honest, what if he does? He's hardly going to recoil in horror is he? Try to focus on enjoying your meeting rather than worrying about what the scales say.

[OhWellThatsJustGreat]

I think he'll notice but not realise iyswim? He'll notice something different but not know what. I think that's what most people are generally like anyway?

[Rainbow1234567]

Thanks everyone. I think I would notice if someone else had gained weight but maybe I have an eye for these things!! Hopefully he won’t notice. The side effect is a fuller, younger face so that’s a bonus!!

[BooksAreMyOnlyFriends]

No, just as you probably wouldn't notice if he had gained weight.

[Floralnomad]

I doubt that 7lbs is noticeable to anybody but yourself - enjoy .

[NameChangeNugget]

I think a lot will depend on what you are wearing. Hope all goes ok.

[Bluntness100]

No of course not.

[GreenFingersWouldBeHandy]

I bet he won't even notice. Especially if you're flirting with him.

Have fun!