Hi all,
Not a AIBU, but shamelessly posting for traffic.
My mum died in April. She always said that when she died, she wanted to be cremated and returned to Liverpool and be buried in the same plot as her own mother.
I spoke to the cemetery. I learn that there's actually six people in that plot, including my mum's grandmother and some of grandmother's maternal family.
The issue I have is the cemetery has no record of who owns the plot and I need their permission to inter my mum's ashes. All they could give me was the address of the last person buried there in 2000. Sadly nobody by that family name lives at that address any more.
So I contacted the council, but they don't own the cemetery and told me to contact the Catholic burials phone number. But they have no record of who owns the plot either.
They did give me the name of the funeral directors that did the burial in 2000, but the funeral directors don't have records that far back.
I've also posted on a FB group in the area where the chap who died in 2000 lived, appealing for any of his family to come forward. So far, no replies.
Has anyone had this situation, or similar?
Is there anything else I can try?
My mum and I really didn't get on and weren't talking when she died due to alcoholism, but I do want to fulfill her final wish still.
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Can't bury my mum, as nobody knows grave owner.
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NameChangedForTheDay · 09/12/2019 12:09
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