I’m going through a protracted spot of financial bother and my coworker has a hundred and one ideas, all of which she is enthusiastic about (& all of which I’ve considered and dismissed).
Why don’t you sell your house for cheap and get a poky flat?!!
Why don’t you get a second job (I’m in my mid-50’s and exhausted as it is)?!!
“Why don’t you sell your possessions?!! I once found a weird object at the dump and sold it for £20!!”
Why don’t you make crafts and sell them door to door?!! (My sister laughed her head off over this one as we’re very introverted and not Little Matchgirls).
And on and on and on. Then she looks all disappointed when I say why I won’t do any of those things and actually said today, when I said “I’m exhausted from this job, I am not going to work weekends as well”, “I would do anything I needed to do!!” (She says everything with great enthusiasm, she’s not mean, just dense). She’s older than me, makes 3 times as much, works shorter hours, mortgage paid off and happily married, so zero understanding of my financial situation as a low paid single parent.
She is doing my head in!! But I don’t want to be rude as she means well and I don’t want an unpleasant mood to start. Ideas?
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To wish my coworker would stop suggesting life fixes to me?
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Ritascornershop · 28/11/2019 01:14
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