Since a previous post where the consensus was that my babies first birthday should be for family and grandparents rather than the babies we know I wanted some more input.
In both baby groups I go to they are planning on having parties for the babies, overpriced soft play and baby rooms. One woman went as far to say I shouldn't have a party at all if it isn't focused fully on the baby.
I slightly get her point because it is his birthday, but he is one!
I thought we could go revolution with our 20 close family members, have some nice food and drinks so they can celebrate his birthday with us. I have been there a few times with baby and he crawls around, the staff love him, planning to rent the restaurant area so he can waddle about happily, he will be one of three babies with 20 of his favourite adults, balloons, he gets food which he loves, cuddles from family and new toys. This will cost about £180?
What do you think? Yes he would prefer a sensory room but then I am paying £15 a person, minimum of 10 babies a party, for babies I see once a week and that my baby wouldn't recognise in a crowd? Then I would probably have to have a family party anyway becuase they would want to celebrate with him.
I will have been back at work 2 months so the £180 is okay with me but husband says we could go away with that money and do something the baby would like more e.g. Legoland or sealife. But once again all family would still want to celebrate at one point?
What is everyone's opinion, is the first birthday for family or mum and dad or the baby? If I'm wrong I don't mind as Legoland would be more fun that paying for our families food!
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Feb2018mumma · 10/11/2018 10:40
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