My FIL came to stay at the weekend. In the past he had prostate trouble which led to waterworks issues in the night. This was a few years back and he told us about it. I told him not to worry, we understand, we put a mattress protector on and if there is an issue just tell me and we'll get the bed changed for him. Fast forward 2 years, he's had treatment and all is well. Apparently the wetting is no longer an issue. Today, I went into the spare room to strip the bedding after his stay and the place reeks of urine. The duvet, sheets, the mattress topper and even the electric blanket all stink. There is a waterproof protector but because it's been left untouched for a few days everything is tainted. I don't mind the accident, he's old and these things happen. What I mind is that he didn't say anything about it. I get that it's embarrassing, but there comes a point when you have to swallow your pride, and I made it clear in the past that it wasn't a big deal. If we'd known and changed it all straight away the mattress protector would have done it's job but now the bed, and the whole room stink. I've taken the duvet and the electric blanket to the dry cleaners, and have left the windows open all day. Would you be a bit angry about this? Just to be clear, he's not a doddery old person who wouldn't know he'd done it. Mentally he's fine, he travels all over the country alone and is just back from a travelling holiday in Spain. There's nothing wrong with his mental faculties!
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