On the tails of the many threads on fatness / obesity and how bad it’s perceived I have started to wonder how people see me.
I consider myself big-boned (yes I know but I swear I am!) 5.7 tall and a size 14/16.
I don’t think I look fat. I am not slim or skinny but not fat.
I have been a size 12 and people seemed more attracted to me but I was also 20 years younger so not sure being bigger is the only factor to take into account.
AIBU to feel those threads are not for me or Am I self deluded and everybody pities me and finds me ugly, hopeless and fat because I am over what is a healthy weight for my height?
I am very active and so quite muscly. Eat healthyly but would need to starve to be the same weight of 20 years ago!
Tell me when do you start considering someone fat?
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How big to be considered fat?
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Iamhappytobehappy · 30/10/2018 19:15
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