Friend of 25 years- we have stayed in touch and see each other a couple of times a year but I realised recently that its always me going to her. She has been saying for the last 4 years that she will come and visit me and have even made plans but something always happens and she never comes.
I noticed that she has recently met up with another friend and travelled quite a long way to see her. Its pissed me off but also made me think that I have been a bit foolish. That I have made the effort for years when clearly its not a 2 way street.
I feel like the blinds have gone up and I have seen it all in a very different way- its hurt me a lot but aibu to tell her to jog on! I dont want to be in one sided friendships- I have lots of other friends that do make an effort.
Aibu? I feel a bit stupid that I didnt see it sooner.
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To tell this friend to jog on
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Oopupsideyourhead · 15/10/2018 15:20
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