He’s always been terrible at sleeping in his own bed. We’ve happily coslept until about a year ago when he really got too big for it to be comfortable.
Now we have a sort of uneasy truce whereby one of us spends up to an hour reading and settling and sitting outside his room until he falls asleep. He always wakes up in our bed, which is fine.
DD is 13 and recently got a double bed. So now it’s 50/50 whether he wanders into ours or hers (she doesn’t mind at all). At the weekends she’s started having him in with her from the get go, they watch films (later bedtime at the weekend) and fall asleep with no drama. We’d said this is just for non school days because of some ingrained notion of it being better for them to sleep in their own beds, with a routine etc.
So I’ve sort of given up this evening. I’m tired and a bit blah and DH was working. dd asked if ds could sleep in her bed, I said that was fine, they trotted off upstairs at 8pm and that was that. DH finished work, we spent some time together, watched some tv and have now come to bed.
I honestly think this might be the way forward. Would we be shooting ourselves in the foot? I mean, he’ll learn to sleep in his own bed eventually, right?
DH’s only grumble is that when he’s in with DD he doesn’t end up in our bed at all and DH misses him .
WWBU to just say fuckit and let him share with DD, all the time she’s happy with it? It’s such a palaver otherwise, and is it really worth it?
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AIBU?
To just give up with bedtime for the 6yo?
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AnachronisticCorpse · 27/11/2017 23:00
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