DP proposed and presented me with the ring he\u2019d chosen \u2013 a diamond solitaire in white gold. I was so happy and excited to accept but was disappointed when I first saw the ring. The first word that entered my head was \u2018small\u2019. There\u2019s nothing to dislike about the type of ring per se, as a diamond solitaire would have been my choice, but it\u2019s the whole thing - the colour of the gold, the setting, the small stone and relatively chunky shoulders. \r\n\r\nHis salary is nearing a 6 figure sum and he\u2019s usually very generous. Having seen the receipt I know he paid \u00a31,300 for it \u2013 which is a lot less than I would have imagined he would have spent on such a significant piece of jewellery.\r\n\r\nHe\u2019ll be more disappointed in me for making a fuss over it when, in his eyes, it fits and there\u2019s nothing actually wrong with it rather than being disappointed that I\u2019m not truly happy with it. Someone at work apparently told him that \u2018if she makes it all about the ring, then she\u2019s not the girl for you\u2019.\r\n\r\nIdeally I would have loved for us to have chosen a ring together and made a special day finding one we both liked.\r\n\r\nAs it\u2019s something I\u2019ll be wearing every day and is such a special piece of jewellery I wanted to really love it and I just don\u2019t. \r\n\r\nHas anyone else been in this situation? What did you do?