For a bit of background (I don't want this thread to be about him)
Me, OH and DD were living at OHs mums. I fell pregnant and OH asked me and DD to leave as I refused to have an abortion.
His mum sobbed when I told her, we packed up our stuff and left.
I KNOW his mum hasn't said anything to him about this, they've carried on as normal and now she sends me videos of her face every morning and every night "MORNING (DD) nanny loves you, be good for mummy mwa mwa mwa" or "GOODNIGHT MY DARLING, have a good sleep love you lots MWA MWA MWA" she literally kisses the camera and I've never cringed so much in my life she tries to ask about my pregnancy and has half invited herself to scans/appointments. AIBU to be pissed off with her? She hasn't said a word to her son about how he's acted or the fact that we're not there because of him. No disappointment shown or voiced and she expects me to be fine with her. I understand it's her son but you have to be pretty heartless to NOT say anything to him or let her feelings be known about this? It just makes me feel (about the pregnancy more than DD) you chose to support him in having nothing to do with this and have left me to do it alone, so that's that. Its my thing now and it feels like rubbing salt in the wound to ask me about it and pretend me and her are friends or that I'm not upset with her when I feel betrayed!
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Christinedonna · 14/07/2017 14:24
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