I'm having an ablation and sterilisation in a few weeks. It is not an essential op but it was offered to me on the NHS. I have fibroids. I'm actually now managing my periods great with medication. I don't react well to anaesthesia.
My employer is having a really shit time with staffing and I know me taking 2 weeks out at the moment is going to be a nightmare. It is a temporary issue that will be better later in the year.
The week before my op I am due in uni in a city for a whole week.
I also have a holiday booked and paid for only 2 weeks after the op for which I have to do a lot of driving and walking.
Added to this I am a single mum and I don't have a lot of help.
I would be off work for a whole month really - week in uni, 2 weeks op and one week holiday.
I am considering asking them to defer this operation as it is terrible timing and I regret thinking I could do it all. But I feel like the NHS is not there to suit around my social problems
So more a WWYD?
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PookieDo · 23/06/2017 09:12
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