One of the areas I find most difficult to compromise on in a relationship is food, especially when I'm trying to eat healthily or save money.
I'd happily be mostly vegetarian - not really for ethical or health reasons, I'm just not mad on meat and it's so expensive compared to other food. When I lived alone I'd just eat a lot of beans, lentils, etc. I'd also naturally eat lighter meals - e.g. sometimes just have beans on toast for tea or some crumpets.
DH always wants to eat a proper hot meal with meat in. He never really feels like lighter meals like fish or salad, he always goes straight for the heavier stuff like pasta.
So we have to find compromises but it wears me down. Sometimes I just really want to eat what I want to eat and he probably does too.
AIBU to ask how others deal with this? Do you make separate meals? Variations on the same meal? Or just both eat meals that aren't really what either of you want?
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moutonfou · 17/06/2017 23:01
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