My boss is a bully. I've been patronised in front of colleagues (and she's done the same with colleagues I sit with), she's told me I'm a negative person, she perceives that everything I say to her is negative so I feel like I'm constantly having to explain myself to her, and the thought of dealing with her daily is making me physically ill.
I've been diagnosed with panic disorder since she became my manager, had time off with anxiety (although it coincided with my partner being off as a family member died and I was accused of taking time off to be with him), and feel sufficiently worried about my work record to not take any more time off to sort myself out as I am now at verbal warning stage with my 14 day absence due to work-related stress (although my colleague was off for 6 weeks and wasn't placed under the same restrictions which are a warning after 11 days off)
I can't square this with her directly as she is incredibly difficult to deal with, but I don't know what else to do. It's affecting my home life and relationships to a serious degree and there are very few jobs I can apply for where I live (or close to)
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queeneileen · 08/09/2015 00:47
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