I have no idea what to say to my friend about this. I've worked with him for quite a few years and he's recently been confiding in me and a group of work friends about his home situation. Wife (who I've only met once) has severe ocd. I knew this before but seems to have got much worse since their daughter was born nearly a year ago. According to my friend, his wife won't let anyone bath their daughter (including her), she hasn't ever been in a car, no one else is allowed to cook meals for her, she never spends time with any other children because his wife is terrified of her being hurt, germs spread etc. What I find really sad and worrying in particular though is that he isn't "allowed" to take his daughter out anywhere alone. My friend doesn't want to confront this at all in case it upsets and stresses his wife. He says she is speaking to a psychologist over the phone about all of this but health visitor, family doctor etc all seem to be unaware.
He says he feels that he isn't being a proper parent to their daughter. I and our other friends have no idea what to say to him at all, we don't want to upset him or push him into doing anything. What would you do?
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To think this is not a healthy situation for my friend and daughter?
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Alicat79 · 09/07/2015 16:40
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