DH and i have starting thinking about when to christen our daughter (first born, 4 months). I myself am a "believer" but not a regular church goer if that makes sense. I was christened and we married in church. Our DD will be christened in the church we married in. DH wasn't christened, nor was his brother.
I only want my brother and his wife to be Godparents. They absolutely dote on DD and she adores them. They make such an enormous effort with her and they are a natural choice. DH and my brother get on well and he is of course happy with this. He asked today: "Shall i ask my brother?" on the premise it's "a bit mean if he doesn't". I said it doesn't work like that and you should do what you like. I commented that i hardly think his brother would be bothered since he has only bothered to see DD when she was first born. We only live an hour from them. When we visited DH's parents, he didn't come round when he said he would. He himself has a disfunctional relationship with the mmother of his two children, neither of whom were christened, so it isn't a "return the favour" situation.
His brother is okay. Totally impartial to him. He is pleasant enough but selfish and thoughtless. I feel like having him as Godparent dilutes it a bit and would rather just have my bother and SIL. AIBU?
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Having BIL as Godfather for the sake of it?!
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ellissss · 02/07/2015 16:57
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