Please help - either sympathy or advice particularly welcome, or of course you could tell me to 'man up'!
Dh has booked the 4 of us (me, him, ds (9) dd (7) a week's holiday in Madrid, end of July. We are staying in an apartment booked through airbnb. I am scared that we are just going to be too hot and it won't be fun! On the way to school today (in this heat ) me and the dc were all slow and listless and wanting to be in the shade. But Madrid will be so much hotter! How will we cope? Will we get sunstroke? Feel nauseous? Be counting the days till the end of the holiday? Or what?
I am also irritated with dh I think for booking this holiday. We agreed that we would each book a holiday this year for the family (with a budget)- and I booked a UK caravan type holiday. He was kind and enthusiastic about it, but it isn't really adventurous enough for dh. He likes adventures, and I think he is okay with the heat (he likes 'dry' heat). I feel though that while the holiday I booked was at least designed to make sure the children would enjoy it, he hasn't really taken them into account enough in booking this holiday. He also doesn't like people whining and prefers them to come to him with solutions rather than problems! But I feel a bit like whining! We are all very active, and I think it is hard to be active in the heat. E.g. will we feel like hiring bikes in 40 degrees? I'm assuming that because of the apartment there will be no pool to hang out by if it's really hot... I've just got everything crossed that there is aircon!
Anyway, I guess I am whining here instead of to dh. What can I do to make this all work? Thank you kind mumsnetters!
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badger2005 · 01/07/2015 09:22
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