She is trying to making his life miserable and vicariously mine.
He is the nicest kindest man I have ever mety but I am really not sure that I can takdon'tmuch more of this.
It is damaging my mental health.
DH seems to deal with everything in a better way, when we first met he struggled, ironically I helped him come to terms and put plans in place to avoid him ending up feeling like shit.
But she doesn't stop. We took her to court to address the issues with contact.
Now she is saying that in the court order we agreed that my children would not be present during contact...we did not agree to this.
This is their home they should be able to be here when ever they or I or their father deems it necessary.
She is threatening to take us to court to ensure that only children from his first marriage should be around at wrekend contact.
She disagrees with us having students, were they sleep, what we feed them, what we do with them when they are here.
We leave her to get on with her life and we just want the same.
But I realised recently that this is never going to happen. She is never going to stop the harrasing emails, texts and phone calls.
She doesn't care if the children are present when she lays in to him or myself.
We instigated a contact book so that all communication can go through that.
She doesn't want to use it.
I am at my wits end and frankly horribly depressed.
Everytime something new happens it is like a nail in the coffin.
We have successfully built a happy family over the last 4 years everyone (ie the children) are happy, surely yhat is the most important thing.
I just dont understand the mentality of someone trying to be so destructive.
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