My normally lovely DS (15) has just accused me of being The. Worlds. Strictest. Parent.
Background so not accused of drip feeding. I am a single parent (I have a partner but he works away doesn't live here and kids aren't his). I work full time and have a DD 13 and a DS2 11.
After months of nagging just before Xmas I put his bedtime up to 10pm. I don't expect him to go to sleep necessarily and it's later than his siblings but I expect him to be ready for bed although he has his laptop and phone in his room - I just want 1/2 hr to an hr to myself downstairs before I also go to bed, he is very absent minded and I would not trust him to lock up and turn everything off anyway.
My partner pays for his phone (iphone) and he gets pocket money for doing things around the house (often when asked to help around the house there is a massive amount of eye rolling and sighing).
He has an x-box (which I bought for Xmas after a few years of asking even though they have a Wii and DS's) which he shares with his brother. I allow him (DS1). To play 16 games but I refuse to allow him to play 18s. On top of me thinking and wishing more parents would do the same as I don't feel they are appropriate/he needs to be playing them - part of my job involves esafety so I would be a bit if a hypocrite to allow him anyway.
He is mortified by this (esp when playing x-box live he says he has to find excuses for why he can't play COD etc) and after being let down today by a mate whose house he is supposed to be staying at I asked why he never has his mates round here (I love having their friends here). He said its because I am so strict ands it so embarrassing that he is not allowed to play 18's and he has a bedtime. "None" of his friends have a bedtime and they are "all" allowed to play 18s - obvs I know to take this with a pinch of salt - but he was really upset and nearly crying which he never does :(.
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Gossipmonster · 04/04/2013 17:49
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