Dp and I had a heated discussion and I asked him to leave it has been several days,Ill admit I said it in haste as ashamed of my actions but told him I missed him and was he coming back, he said no.
So aibu to have said you can see the kids ,plus we need some money please and you can leave the key when you come, I then said I will pack your clothes and leave them at your parents,instead of leaving them at his friends which is who he is staying with.
Im so mad,he has said how sad he is,and that he misses the kids,which is fair enough ,the think is he has friends to help him I have knowone.
I asked him to leave as he goes out a few times in the week leaving me to it,as a result I have become lonely and depressed plus he just makes no effort to help me at all,I admit im to blame as well.
We have been together along time and he just wont commit,tbh I dont want him to know, as he clearly does not love me,and its a bit of a joke now with our friends,and I lost my temper as its been building up, im obviously the joke for being a mug.
What would you do as he phoned to say he is still is coming to see the kids tonight and drop of money,could I give him a few days to sort himself out,I said id rather you just drop of keys take the kids out and go for good whilst I pack for him.
I dont want to fight anymore,he said your angry and its you who asked me to leave and he cant go on like this,so what would you do as I have knowone to talk to.
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To have asked him to leave he is now not coming back?
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heartbreakhotel · 31/05/2011 14:34
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