Background: DH recently left his job and started with a new company. We moved across the country for new job. He has been overseas for a month on a training course.
While he was away a girl from the old company also handed in her notice and is hoping to move into the industry that DH has just entered.
She is having a bit of a wobble about quitting the old company to move into new industry and I think she's probably been looking to DH for both career advice/reassurance as he has done it. As she is still in the first location this contact is phone, txt & Facebook.
DH's phone just went and it was her asking if he got back from his overseas trip. He asked me to read it out to him as he was busy.
I thought it was odd for her to do this (don't people have better things to do on their bank holiday w/e?) so scrolled up the conversation to see what she's like/how much contact they have (because I'm quite nosy yes, but DH was with me I wasn't sneaking around)
There was a txt conversation from a couple of nights ago where she had sent messages to DH saying things like
"I'm so sad"
"I've had too much to drink and the others (colleagues) have left me"
"I'm all alone"
All quite needy txts, which tbh were pointless as DH was a) overseas at the time and b) doesn't live locally anymore anyway. Surely if she was drunk alone & feeling vulnerable it would make more sense to txt a friend locally, a colleague, a taxi.... Just anyone but an ex-colleague who now lives a few hundred miles away.
DH proceeded to send replies
EG. Have you got enough money, can you get a proper taxi, don't get a mini cab, take a paracetamol, have you brushed you teeth (?!) well into the early hours.... And obv she kept sending replies to those sounding all sad & pathetic
FFS, she's in her mid-20s, and he's not her husband.... Tbh they're not even good friends. Id never heard of her til we left.
AIBU to be pissed off that hours after I say goodnight to my husband overseas on a business trip, he's txting this girl making sure she's got a taxi, brushed her teeth and is feeling better after an emotional night.
The txting resumed at 7am... I'm feeling rough... Poor you... Etc.
I must be pretty naive - I thought me & 23 week old DS at home were the only ones he txted at night before bed and to say good morning to.
Am I a fruitloop? Am I normal?
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bigpinkellie · 22/04/2011 23:09
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