DS is three and a half and does not nap. He needs a lot of sleep. When he gets enough (11-12 hrs) he is delightful. When he doesn't, he's, erm...less than delightful. :)
DS has to be up by 7:30 at the latest, but usually wakes up around 7:10 or so on his own, so I feel he needs to be asleep by 7:30. The problem is, DH doesn't get home until after 6 most days.
He is a wonderful father and he and DS are very close. When he gets home they want to play and roughhouse until well after 7, and then DH wants to read him three or four stories. A lot of nights DS is not getting to sleep until closer to 8:30 or later, and then he's terrible the next day. For instance, last night he was up til almost 9 and today he's been screaming at me, hitting, etc. He's in the naughty spot right now for the umpteenth time this afternoon and I'm practically in tears myself.
I get done with work every day at noon and bring DS home from daycare. When he's been up late he starts wearing down around 1 and I have five hours with an exhausted little screamer til DH gets home.
He will not nap. On the very few occasions he does fall asleep, he's cranky when he wakes up and then will not fall asleep until 11 p.m. or so.
I feel awful enforcing bedtime; I know DH just wants time with him and I'd much rather have that than the opposite of course! But I really feel like DH gets very little "quality" time with him as it is because DS is so cranky in the afternoon/evening.
So AIBU to think that DS needs to be asleep at 7:30 even though it means less time with his dad?
(I'm actually a little nervous here; I feel like a miserable hag already, always breaking up the fun to put DS to bed... :( )
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CheerfulYank · 30/03/2011 22:44
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