hi,
don't want to cause a row in the 'i'm a busier mother than you' conversation but this issue came up when a friend came to visit recently.
i have a very active 3 year old and ID twin boys who are 8 months. the last few months have been crazy busy, although i've been loving it! i got help at the beginning (mother MIL, friends) but am doing most on my own as DH works long hours. am not complaining or anything as I chose to have these children and am delighted and proud of them. however, without sounding a bit naughty, am very intolerant of people telling me how busy they are.
she said her sister was much busier with her 3 children than i was as they were "at totally different stages" and that at least my twins "do everything at the same time". (ya right)
i felt slightly annoyed as she was kind of undermining how busy and tough i've found the last few months (i do play it down though as i really don't want to sounds like a twin - i'm - so-busy-bore). i know she didn't mean it but it begged the question:
are you busier with one child and set of twins OR with 3 children? is being busy a perception? a work colleague of mine has one child and is always 'half killed' by how busy she is (kind of drives me nuts to listen to it!) also, my brother, who has no children, is always too busy to reply to calls/texts, don't ask me what he does with his time. He says things like 'i'm so busy and tired today as had to get up at 8am!! this is a lie in for me!!!!
anyway, just wondering what you think! no offence intended to anyone :)
AIBU?
to think i'm busier with toddler and twins than three singletons?
doradaisy · 30/03/2011 16:27
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