FUCKING FED UP with ruining EVERY weekend binge drinking. I've been doing it for way too long now, since lockdown one. Why can't I just be normal and stick to one bottle on a Saturday night like everyone else?! Instead of caning it 3, 4 days in a row. This last weekend was another failure. On Friday night and again yesterday I actually ended up tipping the second half away... I didn't even really want any of it. It's just a shit, horrible habit that's carried on from last year when I was using alcohol as an anti depressant. Even though it's the worst thing you can probably do to curb anxiety and self loathing. I absolutely hated myself today. Another unproductive weekend having diarrhoea... of absolutely hating myself. The disappointment, the embarrassment, the fear. It's awful. I stopped for a good while earlier this year and it felt brilliant waking up fresh, being able to go for a run, being able to go food shopping and not having to cancel everything because I can't drive. Not being too scared to answer the phone in case someone realises I'm slurring. I have a breathalyser... that "beep, beep, beep" telling me I'm over the limit is so awful. It might as well say "you dirtbag you've done it again".
This Thursday night I will go for a long walk and tire myself out, on Friday I will cook something nice and watch a film. I will NOT spend another pointless, self pitying weekend drowning my liver for absolutely no real reason at all.
The disappointment and the guilt is vile 😞
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This weekend will be different!!
LoveShitJokes · 07/11/2022 18:07
PosiePerkinPootleFlump · 18/11/2022 05:48
Well done on fighting it yesterday. Hopefully you have reaped the benefits in your run this morning..
I stopped drinking at the end of August and can already feel that the benefits to my running are huge. Not just no more cancelled planned runs because of hangover, but faster recoveries and so much more energy too
Onewildandpreciouslife · 17/11/2022 23:18
I think tonight was a big achievement for you, not least because you sound much more aware of the mental battle going on.
I hope you make it on your run - running is so much better when you’re not dehydrated with an acidic stomach. Who’d have thought?!
Onewildandpreciouslife · 17/11/2022 07:01
Good luck! Perhaps it’s not a question of trying harder but trying smarter? I’d really recommend reading something about the effects of alcohol on your brain which explains why it’s so hard. This Naked Mind is very good at that, in a non judgy way
Onewildandpreciouslife · 14/11/2022 18:18
You haven’t let yourself down. It’s hard - you’re fighting with your own brain and years of conditioning.
It really might be worth learning something about the way alcohol affects your brain. This Naked Mind by Annie Grace is a good place to start.
Onewildandpreciouslife · 14/11/2022 06:36
How was the rest of your weekend @LoveShitJokes ?
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