My friend began regular binge drinking around a year ago after a relationship breakdown. This progressed to daily heavy drinking around 5 months ago. She subsequently lost her job, got caught drink driving and her children were removed by SS to their father after she collapsed drunk whilst looking after them. Her family were initially supportive and she underwent medical detox in hospital but relapsed almost straightaway. She recently managed to stay dry for nearly 6 weeks and was looking so much better and was allowed more regular contact with her kids.
However last week she relapsed again. Was taken to hospital but discharged herself, found wandering the streets drunk covered in blood. Her parents have refused to help this time and her ex says he has to prioritize kids.
I have been checking in on her and she is drinking over litre of vodka a day and barely eating. House is filthy.
She is supposed to be weaning herself off with (virtual) support of a turning point volunteer as otherwise may have seizures. But clearly she is just drinking herself to death at the moment. Is there anything I can do? She knows she is an alcoholic but seems powerless to stop herself. It's all happened so quickly. A year ago she barely drank. She has lots of withdrawal medication in the house but isn't taking it. I'm scared I will find a body next time i go around.
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Is my friend too far gone?
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bobbycock79 · 04/02/2022 20:19
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