Dear all, I would love to hear your thoughts on this: I am working full-time as a solicitor whilst doing a part-time PhD (since October) which is going well, having written 10% so far. We are buying a house and hoping to have children in the next 3 years or so. Now the thing is, most people I know are telling me that doing the PhD is a silly move really, as they think it will not enhance my career and that I will earn peanuts if I wanted to become an academic. My dilemma is that I cannot see being a City solicitor as compatible with motherhood one day. Hours are unpredictable, pressures on finding clients and billing are increasing, aggression in the workplace is high due to constant competitiveness in the profession. I like law and my PhD is closely linked to my specialisation. However, I do feel saddened and discouraged by some of the comments I am getting. I know that emotionally, I will not be able to hand my child(ren) to a nanny without seeing them when they are awake during the week. Also, having changed law firms recently, I noticed a certain attitude towards me as potential 'maternity time-bomb'. My husband works full-time in a kinder industry but cannot give up his job. I guess what I would like to know, are my decisions and thoughts unreasonable? Thank you.
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