ive wanted to do this as I know baby/child death isn’t always talked about.
My son died in 2019 after living in hospital for 6 months. He had a heart condition.
Ask me anything
AMA
My son died aged 6 months from a heart condition. AMA.
Pancakepipsqueak · 20/02/2023 19:05
Pancakepipsqueak · 24/02/2023 18:18
@BreakingBread I’m sorry about your grandchild’s diagnosis and I have every hope that everything runs smoothly for them and your family. The outcome I had isn’t the only outcome - some hypoplast babies are a lot steadier than teddy was.
i think knowing as much as you can rather than asking them questions helps. It was hard and arduous being the information giver when everyone has access to google and research. Little Hearts matter is a great charity and resource. They also offer support for grandparents and support Facebook groups I believe.
now, I think anything that can help give them breaks if they need it. Bringing food for freezer, walking dogs, offering babysitting if have other children. Anything to help. But also backing off as they need time alone to process as well.
after, accept they may be in hospital for a long time - as long as 6 months between the first surgery (Norwood) and second surgery (Glenn). hypoplast babies look perfect and healthy - that’s part of what makes it so hard. But they are very poorly babies and very unstable. They might be fine one day and very sick the next.
sending lots of love and hope. Hypoplast babies are incredible - doctors don’t know how they adapt to such low O2 saturations (75-85% after Norwood) but they do and they can thrive. They’re miracles.
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