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HMno1 · 22/12/2022 22:38
@marcopront interesting. Which country are you in? Do resident staff volunteer to look after the children who stay or are you on a rota to do it?
SurpriseSparDay · 23/12/2022 00:32
Bit surprised you haven’t said that it’s highly unlikely one would meet an ‘infant’ boarder in an English school nowadays, OP. And at prep level boarding is essentially almost weekly - children are almost never there for more than two weeks at a time, and can see their parents almost limitless times during any week or weekend.
The ‘sending away’ rhetoric is really dated and misleading - at least in my opinion and experience.
HMno1 · 22/12/2022 22:38
@marcopront interesting. Which country are you in? Do resident staff volunteer to look after the children who stay or are you on a rota to do it?
RockingMyFiftiesNot · 22/12/2022 22:57
What do you really think about parents who send their children away to school? Especially those who are infant / primary age (appreciate your own students are older)
DobbyTheHouseElk · 22/12/2022 19:52
I was a boarder back in the olden days when pastoral care wasn’t heard of.
Our house mistresses were bitter old women who hated children. They seemed obsessed with rules. Certainly they weren’t people you went to if you were feeling homesick.
We didn’t even have carpet on the floor.
So glad times are different and boarding schools are happy, family places.
WorriedMillie · 22/12/2022 17:27
You sound lovely, OP, I’m sure you’re a great comfort to students who are struggling
DD’s school friend is a houseparents’ daughter, she has a great life. DD loves staying over in the boarding house, it’s such an adventure ❤️
Pearfacebanana · 22/12/2022 17:11
If you also have day pupils are they treated as second class?
(Looking at a boarding school with day option. Some people say day pupils don't get treated as well. Unsure of this myself).
Cheshiresun · 22/12/2022 16:44
Do you find most of parents work away - is that the main reason for sending them to boarding school?
How much are the total school fees per child annually?
Buckland123 · 22/12/2022 16:19
Is it possible to do your job with no prior experience? I would love to do it, but I’m not a teacher.
SurpriseSparDay · 22/12/2022 17:07
Relieved to hear it!
Definitely not a thing here.
(I have assumed the OP is wanting to help people understand the UK boarding system?)
SurpriseSparDay · 22/12/2022 16:57
@marcopront Different world! Across two or three generations of ‘full’ boarding I’ve never known a school with either the facilities or inclination to keep a child over holidays. All the schools I’ve had anything to do with this century (prep and senior ‘public’ schools) close every few weeks for exeats, where everyone goes home or to their guardians for the weekend - and none of the staff stay in school over holidays, at all! Had no idea that still happened in the UK.
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everydaysabeginning · 21/12/2022 19:34
Will many have to spend Christmas there? I feel that's really sad.
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