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Ex male stripper hen night confessions

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theahail · 19/11/2022 23:21

On the back of a request for an AMA feel free to ask an ex hen night/ladies night stripper any questions.

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Laurendelaney1987 · 22/11/2022 13:57

are A lot of male strippers gay? Just that quite a few that I’ve seen gave the impression they were gay

do you ever get an erection when stripping?

are your girlfriends happy with you being a stripper?

is it your full time job? Or just a wee side earning?

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AnAussieMum · 22/11/2022 13:54

I recently went to a hens.

The bride is a young 25 and I am 42 and was only invited as I know her mother.

There was a stripper and I was shocked to hear in his pay a 20 min private show was included.

The bridesmaid took him up on the private show and she later told us that it involved, kissing a lap dance, sucking whipped cream of his penis ( which she did) and an offer of sex was made! Which she apparently refused.

Is this quite normal??

I expected to hear he gave her a lap dance but not the rest.

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DeanStockwooooo · 20/11/2022 00:38

theahail · 19/11/2022 23:31

100% from conversations with females at the agency too it's clearly unfair as female clients are usually more grabby and forward

I thought that may be the case , female strippers seem to be seen as desperate, cheap , sleazy, tarts etc but male stripers are seen as studs , body builders, powerful etc .
That may not always be the case but from a outsiders point of view it seems to be the norm

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Atethehalloweenchocs · 20/11/2022 00:03

What did you think of the women you were stripping for? I have always thought strippers must despise the people watching them.

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theahail · 19/11/2022 23:33

SocksAndTheCity · 19/11/2022 23:31

Why didn't you post this on the AMA board?

Because I've literally just learned there was one, thank you

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theahail · 19/11/2022 23:32

Towcester · 19/11/2022 23:31

Did you ever have sex on a job if so, was extra payment involved?

Rarely sex but yes

Blowjobs were fairly common place though

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SocksAndTheCity · 19/11/2022 23:31

Why didn't you post this on the AMA board?

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theahail · 19/11/2022 23:31

DeanStockwooooo · 19/11/2022 23:29

Do you think female strippers get a worse rep than male strippers

100% from conversations with females at the agency too it's clearly unfair as female clients are usually more grabby and forward

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Towcester · 19/11/2022 23:31

Did you ever have sex on a job if so, was extra payment involved?

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DeanStockwooooo · 19/11/2022 23:29

Do you think female strippers get a worse rep than male strippers

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theahail · 19/11/2022 23:29

MaraScottie · 19/11/2022 23:27

How often do you get propositioned?

Fairly but to varying degrees

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theahail · 19/11/2022 23:28

A combination of one upmans ship and keeping up with the Joneses I would say.

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MaraScottie · 19/11/2022 23:27

How often do you get propositioned?

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Alacarde · 19/11/2022 23:27

What impact to you think the increasing trend for hen celebrations to take the form of extended overseas holidays will have on your industry; and what do you think has driven this trend?

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