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        <lastmod>2013-03-13T12:52:05+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-10-10T19:27:01+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1320167-Mum-has-Alzheimers-feeling-very-lonely</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-10-24T17:13:01+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-10-25T14:47:59+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-11-09T09:00:32+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1330734-Talk-to-me-about-stair-lifts</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-05T14:38:58+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-11-09T14:36:04+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-11-09T17:09:40+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-11-23T21:34:39+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1338889-Its-so-sad</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-11-29T18:38:49+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1342129-Has-anyone-been-successful-in-obtaining-NHS-funded-continuing-care-for-their-elderly-parent</loc>
        <lastmod>2017-08-20T16:00:08+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1342669-Private-Medical-Insurance</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-11-14T10:43:22+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1344076-If-your-mum-was-sexually-assaulted-at-the-nursing-home</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-06T13:03:56+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-12-16T14:23:19+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-12-06T18:13:32+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2025-02-22T14:32:41+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1354906-computers-for-elderly</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-15T14:12:24+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1357153-Help-wanted-Christmas-present-ideas-for-mother-whos-had-a-severe-stroke</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-14T17:24:45+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1360146-Feel-guilty-that-mum-lives-in-such-clutter-and-chaos-but-she-likes-it-like-that</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-03-07T20:45:38+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-12-13T20:42:11+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-12-19T22:36:11+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1362340-What-can-I-buy-my-mums-baby-doll-for-Christmas</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-12T21:06:18+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1362433-Shoes-for-swollen-feet</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-03-30T19:14:39+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1365689-can-anyone-recommend-where-I-can-get-a-nice-microwave-meal-for-my-mum-on-xmas-day</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-11-02T16:59:53+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1366134-MIL-forgetfulness-and-personaly-hygiene-ishoos</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-19T23:21:07+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2011-12-22T21:08:24+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1367999-fall-and-memory-loss</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-23T15:10:29+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1368950-Paranoid-father-and-power-of-attorney</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-23T18:02:16+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1370216-Very-bad-urine-smell</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-06T14:03:20+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1371278-When-will-I-know-it-is-time-to-consider-a-care-home</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-14T20:14:15+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1371604-Positive-experience-on-trains</loc>
        <lastmod>2011-12-30T21:36:52+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1373420-Not-a-good-start-to-2012</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-09T13:30:50+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1375381-peripheral-neuropathy</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-06T14:10:16+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1375461-Feeling-lonely-coping-with-father-with-alzheimers</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-02-07T00:07:22+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1380427-Talk-to-me-about-mobility-scooters</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-18T22:02:55+00:00</lastmod>
    </url>
    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1382121-We-are-at-crisis-point-URGENT-ADVICE-NEEDED-PLS</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-13T20:37:56+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1387428-Help-and-Advice-needed-Dad-with-Dementia-and-my-Mum-having-a-breakdown-I-really-dont-no-where-to-start</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-03-15T10:43:02+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1387731-COPD-NHS-continuing-funding</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-23T14:01:03+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1389377-paying-for-care</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-22T18:05:26+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1389474-FIL-in-hospital-worried-about-MIL-and-what-will-happen-when-he-is-discharged</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-24T08:21:03+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1395612-Do-you-know-someone-over-80yrs-who-lives-in-Glasgow-They-are-entitled-to-100</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-01-31T22:44:52+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1396661-Help-please-my-mil-causing-arguments-between-dh-and-me</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-02-02T10:36:05+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1397400-P-d-off-with-housing-managers-comment-need-advice</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-02-02T17:43:56+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1398163-Refusing-care</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-03-23T21:01:22+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1403664-Is-Age-Really-Just-a-Number-Survey-Please-help-me-out</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-02-21T16:04:42+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
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        <lastmod>2012-02-15T11:31:31+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1410953-Benefits-for-elderly-parents-with-health-issues</loc>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1413097-Any-advice-about-moving-to-a-different-authority-Housing</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-02-24T14:47:39+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1414444-please-help-me-to-help-my-parents-in-Nottingham</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-03-04T20:15:50+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1415560-Miserable-situation-with-my-parents-dont-know-what-to-do</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-07-17T23:15:54+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1416333-Is-this-the-start-of-dementia</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-20T19:30:42+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1417581-What-to-look-for-when-picking-a-nursing-home</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-05-18T13:37:42+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1422452-Can-anyone-recommend-mobile-hairdresser-good-with-elderly-lady-in-Knutsford</loc>
        <lastmod>2013-04-09T13:13:55+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2012-03-09T16:59:03+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2012-03-21T09:37:23+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1427334-Help-with-communicating-with-my-Mum</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-03-13T13:34:21+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1428591-I-despair-I-wish-I-could-just-not-care-but-dear-god-give-me-strength</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-06-26T17:01:02+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1432754-My-parents-live-in-Scotland-I-am-in-South-East-English-my-dad-has-been-diagnosed-with-a-tumour-on-his-kidney-and-I-am-in-turmoil</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-24T17:33:41+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1437285-My-dear-dear-dad-is-dying</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-04T19:36:49+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1439792-My-Mum</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-25T16:54:21+00:00</lastmod>
    </url>
    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1442731-Mum-back-in-hospital-suspected-heart-attack</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-08T22:39:45+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1443351-Night-time-care-for-my-mum</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-05T13:32:00+00:00</lastmod>
    </url>
    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1444098-BUPA-carehomes</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-07-03T18:05:05+00:00</lastmod>
    </url>
    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1445485-Miss-the-person-my-Mum-used-to-be</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-06-13T03:01:31+00:00</lastmod>
    </url>
    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1446567-I-am-deliberately-not-namechanging-This-is-ugly-Or-going-to-be-Division-of-assets-after-my-parents-pass-away</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-20T10:02:27+00:00</lastmod>
    </url>
    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1447946-I-think-my-mum-is-going-to-make-a-huge-mistake-Need-advice</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-12T22:42:00+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1452432-this-is-an-elderly-person-related-AIBU-may-contain-TMI</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-17T21:19:11+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1452457-anyone-any-bright-ideas-on-how-to-organise-medication-for-mother</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-17T22:26:46+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1454248-Advice-for-me-my-mum-about-myGrandad-living-with-them-control-issues</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-04-20T13:29:58+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1457388-expected-to-do-more</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-08-11T21:17:14+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2012-05-01T16:25:58+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2012-05-04T21:51:07+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1467591-Advice-please-point-me-in-the-right-direction</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-05-08T13:31:18+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1467599-How-to-get-my-MIL-to-use-a-hearing-aid</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-05-07T22:53:05+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1467895-MIL-and-wine</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-07-23T13:39:42+00:00</lastmod>
    </url>
    <url>
        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1471458-terrible-news-today-about-my-lovely-Mum</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-06-08T08:37:35+00:00</lastmod>
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    <url>
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        <lastmod>2012-05-15T10:05:36+00:00</lastmod>
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        <loc>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/elderly_parents/1474367-Advice-and-help-please-regarding-elderly-Aunt-and-care</loc>
        <lastmod>2012-06-07T21:20:17+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2019-10-10T19:10:09+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2021-09-12T01:02:33+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2022-03-30T13:43:56+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2022-03-25T22:02:01+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2023-09-15T20:38:01+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2023-09-17T08:46:43+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2023-09-17T21:06:49+00:00</lastmod>
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        <lastmod>2023-09-23T14:35:52+00:00</lastmod>
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