Your baby at nine weeks old
By nine weeks old, your baby is becoming more lively and characterful. Almost, dare we say it, like a real human being! You're probably getting lots of smiles from her and may notice her respond in kind to funny noises or faces
Sleep patterns at nine weeks old
Now she's having longer stretches of sleep things should start to become easier for both of you. She'll be better able to cope with more active times when she's had a decent kip and you'll be feeling slightly less frazzled, too.
Around this time you might notice she's looking a little snug in her Moses basket. If you're thinking about moving her to a cot you could try letting her just do daytime naps in the cot at first to start getting used to it, or even just putting her in her Moses basket inside the cot to sleep so she gets slowly used to the environment. Switching from blankets to a baby sleeping bag when she moves into a cot might also make the transition easier as she'll feel more snug and secure in that big, open space.
Feeding at nine weeks old
Nine-week-old babies tend to feed five to six times in every 24 hours. The number of feeds is slowly decreasing as she's able to feed more effectively and her growing stomach allows her to take more milk. Around now she may move from feeding from just one breast at each breastfeed to emptying both breasts in one sitting.
Physical development at nine weeks old
At nine weeks, she's really filling out and growing beautifully chubby thighs and arms. As well as gaining weight, she's gaining muscle tone, too. When she lifts her head up now, she has the strength and control to turn it and even hold it at a 90-degree angle.
How much can my baby see at nine weeks old?
Your baby's eyes are developing the ability to see in 3D now, meaning she's able to judge distances more easily.
Brain development at nine weeks old
She's noticing the world around her more and may take a particular interest in new sounds. Put a CD on and watch her stop and listen and maybe even kick her legs to the music. When you 'talk' to her, try to leave gaps for her to 'reply' in – these moments are the first building blocks of conversation. The funny baby noises she makes are becoming more purposeful now and, as well as smiling, you might even catch a first laugh around now.
Play at nine weeks old
There's evidence that babies of this age show a preference for faces above any other shape or image. It's an in-built inclination that encourages babies to bond with their parents. Look for toys and board books that have pictures of faces in them for her to enjoy.
She's very responsive to sounds from this age and will particularly enjoy learning that her actions can create sound – wrist and ankle rattles that strap on with Velcro are great for this stage and she'll delight in shaking her arms and legs to hear the noise she can make.
And if you think that's irritating, just wait until someone buys her an electronic toy that goes off day and night.
Milestones at nine weeks old
This is the week you might hear a first chuckle from your baby. Joke books at the ready.
Your life with a nine-week-old baby
Week nine marks the start of your baby becoming a bit more companionable. If you've felt as though motherhood was a bit of a thankless and lonely task, things are looking up now with plenty of smiles and giggles for your trouble. And because your baby is a bit more robust and predictable, it becomes easier to get out and about, which is something of a sanity-saver for you. Now might be a good time to look into what's on locally for mums and babies and join a few groups and classes.
Some people are really hung up on forming a routine, others are happy to go with the baby and let a routine form naturally. As long as your baby is getting sleep, food, comfort and playtime, it's fine.
Follow the pattern that your baby is setting at the moment (why give yourself a battle you don't need to be having?)
Going out – even for just the evening – becomes something of an event in itself once you have children. It can actually be easier to go out for the evening when they are that tiny (than when they are clingy and aware that you are leaving them with someone else).