Pregnancy App Article: "Planning ahead: Birth partners"

Week 31
Birth partners
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Your birth partner should be someone you know and trust, who'll remain by your side throughout your labour and support you when the going gets tough. It can be anyone you like: the father of your child, your mum, your sister, a good friend or a doula.

If you're having a home birth, you can have as many people as you want in attendance - although you probably won't fancy a big crowd.

Some hospitals allow you to have two birth partners, but check their policy first; one tends to be the limit. You should also let your midwife know who will be present.

Why have a birth partner?
Studies have shown that having the support of a birth partner can lessen how scared and tired you feel and possibly even reduce your perception of pain.

What are they for?
Support, reassurance and encouragement are a birth partner's main duties. How they provide them is up to you. You might ask them to massage your back, ensure you're keeping your fluid levels up, feed you glucose tablets, tell you you're doing great when you feel like giving up, remind you to keep mobile, pass you the gas and air - or just hold your hand and let you squeeze the life out of theirs.

If intervention is suggested, they should try to ensure you
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  • have enough information to make an informed choice
  • are given enough time to weigh up your options (where possible)
If necessary, they may need to ask for more information or a second opinion on your behalf.

They should also be aware that even though you might have written something in blood in your birth plan, you're allowed to change your mind about how you'd like your care to proceed at any point.

Yes, it's their job to remind you that you didn't really want pethidine and why, but you're the one giving birth and what you say goes.
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I had my mum instead of my husband (which he says he now regrets, but he didn't want to be there) and it was fabulous, very girl power.
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I told my husband last time not to be offended if I didn't want him anywhere near me! Turned out I was partly right - couldn't stand any fecking back massage. But when push came to shove he was great to lean on.
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My best friend asked me to be her birthing partner as her partner was squeamish. I had to be there in case he passed out. It was the most amazing experience I'd ever had.
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My husband held my hand and counted my breaths. In the early stages he massaged my back and told me jokes. He reminded me to focus on the surge and not fight it. He stopped me from holding my breath and kept me repeating my mantra.
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It was helpful to have a real advocate, someone who could talk for me when I couldn't!
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