Hey everyone,
I’ve just got some thoughts I wanted to share and get your opinion on.
I feel like I’m happy but not at the same time so stuck in this rut.
Before having a child, I definitely would say I was a go-getter and would try to climb the “corporate ladder” but since having her, I can’t lie, my priorities have changed and I no longer like the idea of working a 9-5 with her in nursery 5 days a week and only spending proper time with her on the weekends. So I’m currently still working full time but 2 days at home where she’s with me, (whilst it’s a lot to juggle, as my work isn’t so demanding as such- I can still prioritise projects and spend time with her during the day).
But.. I can’t help but feel like I’m settling at the same time. My job doesn’t give me the most satisfaction and when I see friends climbing their work ladder, earning more etc I can’t lie I feel jealous and unsatisfied.
I’m struggling to be content in this stage in my life. I was thinking when she starts school full time (she’s currently 19 months & to be honest I want to have another child anytime from now) to then fully give it my all at looking at a new job. But I also feel that’s a long time away to stay somewhere where I’m not completely happy but it gives me flexibility.
Has anyone had similar thoughts, been in a similar situation or what would you advise?
Thank you x
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Lifewithcherryd · 02/06/2021 19:19
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